How to deal with elders who repeat themselves

How to deal with elders who repeat themselves

There can be nothing more exasperating than taking care of elders who repeat themselves. Such behaviour literally drives both family and health caregivers up the proverbial tree. This condition can happen in elders suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. It can also happen to elders who are suffering from dementia or depression. Any of these diseases, especially…

I am 80, helpless and lost and don’t know what to do without my caregiver

I am 80, helpless and lost and don’t know what to do without my caregiver

This is a first-person account of an elderly person who now requires the services of a caregiver. I turned 80 last year. I started suffering from poor health when I was in my late 70s, with the health prognosis not being good as I continued to age. Otherwise, I had a healthy life till my…

Elderly pour out their heartfelt sorrows during therapy

Elderly pour out their heartfelt sorrows during therapy

By Mehak Minocha Dr. Rupal Kaura had always believed in the power of empathy and understanding when it came to her work. As a psychologist with more than 7 years of experience, she dedicated her life to understanding and helping those struggling with mental health issues. But it wasn’t until she began focusing on the…

How a nurse dealt with a dementia patient’s theft charges

How a nurse dealt with a dementia patient’s theft charges

As a nursing assistant, I am frequently assigned to work with dementia patients. Each assignment is a challenge but there is one that is burnt in my memory. The dementia patient was 83 years old and had been suffering from dementia for almost three years. Her cognitive powers were declining, and her family was finding it…

‘At times I am overwhlemed by the misery and heartbreak that I see’

‘At times I am overwhlemed by the misery and heartbreak that I see’

By Triveni Mehtab A caregiver is needed to perform the most thankless jobs. There is too much misery and heartbreak. At times, you have to steel yourself to get ready and go to the house of the elderly person whose family has hired you. The family thinks that its job is over once the caregiver…

The lifelong impact of sibling rivalry: A tale of unresolved conflicts

The lifelong impact of sibling rivalry: A tale of unresolved conflicts

By Shajan C Kumar Sibling rivalry is a persistent challenge for many elderly parents, often stemming from mishandled situations in their children’s early lives. This phenomenon can continue into adulthood, affecting sibling relationships and causing distress for aging parents. The complexities of sibling dynamics are influenced by various factors, including parenting styles, expectations, and individual…